Outgoing Director @bluf.social; coder of kinky apps and sites; generally submissive gay man, based in London. Opinions here are strictly my own, and not those of any organisation
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CW: Dad joke
A bloke in the pub asked me if I could give him change for a £20 note.
I took his money and did my best Lisa Stansfield impersonation.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Z5n...
I will hold off commenting on functionality until I have used it more.
But I will say dark grey text on a black background is incredibly annoying to read, and probably well outside accessibility guidelines, @reconnews.bsky.social
Basically, bigots can't see two gay men doing anything - holding hands, kissing, or just walking down the street - without immediately thinking of powerful, passionate bum sex that simultaneously arouses and disgusts them.
To merely acknowledge your gayness is to be sexual, to a bigot.
Tell lies, incite a mob that gets people burned out of their homes and all the buses in Northern Ireland withdrawn for safety, and no, you're fine. We'll even continue using your platform for government comms.
But let someone get their rocks off to a bondage pic? Oh, the horror!
So, we now have the weird situation where it's apparently beyond the pale for an organisation like @reconnews.bsky.social to show too much consensual kink to people who want to see it, and people like them and us have to do complex risk assessments.
But if you want to pump out race hate, that's ok
While I'm expressing opinions, shout-out to all the bisexuals. You are valid, and should be accepted for who you say you are.
We accept someone telling us they're gay, even if they've not had sex yet. We shouldn't judge the validity of someone's bisexuality based on their sexual encounters either.
