Adoptees know this feeling well. This is honestly how most humans behave and look at their progeny. It’s just that most children within a reasonable bound meet the expectations of their parents and the issue never arises. We should stop being surprised. 🥚
Adoptees notice how hopeful adopters will run gofundmes to afford #adoption fees, while the idea of financially supporting pregnant people or struggling parents at risk of losing their children to foster care or adoption is never considered. These systems are not about child welfare.
#adoption is not and has never been about "the best interests of the child." It is and has always been about redistributing the privileges of parenthood in accordance with racist and classist notions of fitness and desert.
NEW REPORT: Sick and disabled infants deemed unadoptable were denied medical care and left to die in a UK maternity home where unwed mothers were forced to surrender their infants for adoption. 🥚
Heartbreaking story from the Baby Scoop Era
www.bbc.com/news/article...
"Adoption has often been likened to a ghost world, in which the adoptee, the birth parents and the adoptive parents are haunted by spectres of the past. For the birth parents, the primary ghost is of the child lost to adoption. For the adopted person, it is their birth mother." 🥚
🥚 Renewed calls for an apology to Canadian adoptees/birthmothers as called for in 2018 report which acknowledged that
300,000 unwed Canadian women were forced to give up their babies between World War 2 and 1980s, most in government-funded, church-run maternity homes.
www.cbc.ca/radio/thecur...
🥚 A UK adoptee finds his birthmother, discovers his father is Iranian, and has a complicated experience.
“I do not regret either reunion. There is power in gaining self-knowledge, and connecting with my cultural heritage that was erased by the adoption system.”
www.theguardian.com/society/2026...
Actual conversation w my cardiologist as we try apply the new cardiology protocols to me:
Dr: You have high levels of the inherited risk factor LP(a) but a 0 calcium score, excellent stress test, and no family history of CVD so I could go either way on statins
Me: We don’t know my family history
A new report condemning an unmarried mothers' home is welcomed by survivors and relatives.