Thankful every day that I was able to get top surgery.
They were great boobs, just not great for me. Glad they made me some money on their way out!
It was a VERY specific term, as much about naming a kind of radical feminist thought as about naming a kind of transphobia.
Then eventually it came to mean “any transphobic feminist”. Then “any transphobic woman”. Then “any transphobe who gestures towards protecting women”. Then eventually just…
"I don't call the police as a general rule, so I can't fathom calling them on another sex worker. I wish more people would follow the same ethos."
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The way I cope with processing trauma is through humour, but stopping in the middle of a story to go, "Oh, yeah, I definitely got molested. That's a textbook 'I was molested as a kid' thing to say," disturbs a lot of people. For understandable reason! Much to consider.
I know people say that the normal amount of pain is zero but I think all of you who say it doesn't hurt to stand or walk (at least a little) are lying