I know people say that the normal amount of pain is zero but I think all of you who say it doesn't hurt to stand or walk (at least a little) are lying
It was a VERY specific term, as much about naming a kind of radical feminist thought as about naming a kind of transphobia.
Then eventually it came to mean “any transphobic feminist”. Then “any transphobic woman”. Then “any transphobe who gestures towards protecting women”. Then eventually just…
The way I cope with processing trauma is through humour, but stopping in the middle of a story to go, "Oh, yeah, I definitely got molested. That's a textbook 'I was molested as a kid' thing to say," disturbs a lot of people. For understandable reason! Much to consider.