>staring at these pages in agony
>clutching my head in pain
>stare at the emergency glass case saying "Forgive Someone for being a Worse womanizer than Sanji solely because this time she's a lesbian"
>raise my hand to smash it
>shake my head
>"no, I cannot give in and break my creed"
>smash the gla-
"are you going to actually just say bigoted shit like being trans gives you a pass" or "do you sexually exploit the people around you" or "do you burn through friendships like theyre just a disposable resource"
cool
kojira.github.io/bluesky-lice...
admittedly a big part of it is also just. opening up to people irl in the past few years only to realize that they were shitty people after giving them too much benefit of the doubt
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like every time i meet someone new in my local trans scene who isnt introduced to me by a friend (and even a lot who are) i find myself feeling defensive like "are you going to turn out to be friends with a known piece of shit" or "are you going to start immature drama and harass people"