one of my proudest achievements is still the bunch of people i know were like this i've prodded to be more proactive, then noticing them getting happier and their social circle grow in real time
Sanae
unfortunately i've learned u kinda gotta break out of this if u want to hang out with friends at all... because what tends to happen is every one in ur circle is anxious/autistic so no one ends up making the first move to "bother" and every one ends up lonely