Not to discredit anyone who finds comfort in abdl in that way of course! I just don't appreciate assumptions about me nor do I find the blanket judgment to be helpful in understanding who we are.
and extra footnote - I don't actually think anyone is "broken" for being abdl stemming from their medical or mental health. It was a critique of those who think they must be able to find some abnormality in order to explain someone's kinks.