Have a less radical theory that transphobia tends to hit people in middle age because that's when humans begin to de-gender, something widely recognised in other societies that ours doesn't really know how to deal with...
Geoffrey Hughes
Re Glinner I have at least wondered if he has a somewhat torturous relationship with gender, given his penchant for signing up for lesbian dating sites dressed as a woman to say "see how ridiculous it is to think *I* could be a woman!? No one could believe that, right? Right....?" - I mean, like,