In this paper, we experimentally tested the prediction, articulated most explicitly in Debt by David Graeber, that in hierarchical relationships, people expect generous acts to set a precedent (for the same person to be generous again).
I'm staying at my friend's house. Will my friend expect to stay at my house, next time?
What if I said, I'm staying at my parent's friend's house. Will my parent's friend expect to stay at my house next time?
How relationships change expectations: see🧵on new paper by @aliciamchen.bsky.social