What Iβve seen a lot of friends and myself struggle with as far as alter-humanity therianthopy otherkin identities go is the notion that you must choose the being to exist as permanently.
I feel as though this is limiting as you may be more than one. There is no rush, be gentle with yourself.
I don't think I'm attracted to cis women, I think I'm just envious of them.
I see a hot cis woman and my first thought is never "oh I wanna date herrrr," it's cursing myself for not being able to embody what she has. Must be nice.
I'm going to start wearing tinfoil hats at this point