I think I’ve made it clear to everyone that I wouldn’t bring up with my wife any of the stuff I talk with y’all about unless I was threatened with bodily harm
Vikram Bath
I think I’ve made it clear to everyone who would tell me such things that it’s B unless specifically asked otherwise. I generally assume anything I tell someone is up for spousal discussion and I would specify I don’t want that if necessary.
Help settle a 16 year discussion between me and my husband- if someone tells you something in confidence and asks you to tell no one does that mean:
A- You’re not telling your spouse/partner
B- You are telling your spouse/partner unless you’ve been specifically asked not to
