This is the same resentment that fuels the annoyance with the "anti-bedtime left", where any attempt to change systems in order to lessen suffering is seen as an immature inability to accept that suffering is necessary in order to live in the world.
Christine Cherry
One of the things that angers transphobes so much about trans people is that we dare to present an idea of gender that isn't based in oppression. They suffer in patriarchy and resent anyone who takes on a gender role and rejects the suffering, which they'll never do because they're married to it.
Christine Cherry
well def one of those posts that's inadvertantly revealing about the person posting it!