Whenever I now look at my coworker who I thought was cool, I just get upset.
As we got closer, he seemed like a honest and just man. But the comment he made about a woman we work with as I said hi to her, just raised so many red flags.
He got comfortable and I saw the truth in that one comment.
I think of one who I used to be close to, who got so pissed off when his gf cheated on him despite the fact he was sleeping around with several others before that.
I think these men want exclusivity without the commitment. Like they feel entitled to a woman’s body while contributing nothing to her.
And I think that’s what upsets me the most, it’s like these men at first put on a front that they’re a certain way. But once they get comfortable, who they truly are slips out.
I can’t help but feel bad for anyone attracted to men, the number of men who are manipulators and liars are just so high…
I’ve ran into it so often throughout my life. Having to explain it to a relative, best friend, peers, and now a coworker.
Men who often say what the other person wants to hear to just get their way. It’s disturbing. Even at smaller levels, blatantly lying to me over nothing when the truth was fine.
Viktor Oktobar 👁️
I guess I’m just venting about my experiences and what I often see. I take solace that I do have close friends who are men that don’t do this.
So there are good men out there, but unfortunately too few in number. Outnumbered by the sheer volume of men who refuse to reflect, consider, and change.
A lot of these “lovers” really hate their partners… :/
