It's more nuanced than that, but the bottom line is that showing up matters. Even when capacity is limited, being in community and maintaining connection with people requires some effort. Sometimes it's hard. Sometimes it's inconvenient.
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idk. I always see these statements about effort being proof of care and I disagree so much. lacking capacity doesn't equal lack of care. I get that making things black and white in that way makes it easier to make decisions but it's definitely more nuanced than that.