like. you have a t4t night, and everyone under 30 just wants to fuck, and everyone over 37 just wants to recruit you into their game night
where are the ones who wanna make you feel like a princess and let that simmer before a wild multi hour makeout/fuck session?
i'm happier at the (still queer) normie bar
i'm problematic
i've been out, living as myself for four and a half years
i still consider myself a baby queer and baby trans
idk
idk. it's really important for me to have community where i don't need to explain the whole trans experience to
but it's also important to me to not become some separatist who believes *only* trans people can understand trans people
and squaring this is often awkward… and idk how to navigate it