I don’t think there is anything that would make these people happy. I think the “If only you had communicated with the mob more effectively” taking point is either very naive or disingenuous. And it’s basically blaming the victim of totally indefensible harassment and vitriol.
For me the real, tangible consequence of all the AI hate is that I’m currently being blocked out of dealer’s dens at furry conventions which was the main way I was able to directly connect with my readers and actually talk to them. So, it’s been incredibly isolating.