there is no way to make this not sound harsh but if this is your actual mentality the only proper response is/would be "seek help and take a step back or outright stop engaging with politics"—you simply cannot hope make the world a better place while also failing at such basic aspects of self-care
alyaza ΘΔ
genuinely: if i could handle a mayor doubling back on promises about trans rights i would be doing literally anything else with my life