Just got a YouTube rec "TOP TEN THREE YEAR OLDS" and for two seconds I forgot that I've been watching horse racing videos and thought we were powerscaling toddlers
Genuinely, if you don't feel able to be silly while you are being dominant, you may be too up in your head about it.
One of my partners routinely gets me to break into a giggle fit because of how well she commits to the bit. This can happen when I am in full domme mode.
And I love it every time.
Love is being inside another man, happy pride to all the bears out there.