I just go with the bi colors because I think the flag is prettier uwu (although technically I'm probably pan).
Hnnng, that looks so good!!
@shinerai.bsky.social !!!!
are misaligned with what they could realistically expect from you.
I almost exclusively participate in group chats, I don't really stay in touch frequently with induviduals online. Group chats are a lot less social pressure.
If someone gives you a hard time for not staying in touch you should tell them you don't have that type personality, and their expectations