This is the way.
+ Sterilization on-demand.
ANY other way implies strangers judging your needs/your issues with irrelevant opinions, possibly shrugging you off.
Want babies? Focus on social issues.
Don't understand the trans experience? Learn or leave the spot for someone competent.
Abortion care. On Demand. Without Apology.
Trans health care. On Demand. Without Apology.
Any age. Any gestation.
Never. Ever. Ever. Cede ground on these debates. The fascists aren't making their "oh but what abouts...." in good faith. Don't give an inch, they will take everything.