The right-wing "you're not allowed" means, Woe is me, I shall not be universally coddled and admired when I unleash the hideous ugliness of my prejudice and hatred.
See: Alito complained that “you can’t say that marriage is a union between one man and one woman. Now it’s considered bigotry.”
Rebecca Solnit
Dr Oz: "You're not allowed to complain about Somalians, because that's racist. And the worst thing you can be in Minnesota is a racist."