Not sure if it's the neurodivergence, or being queer and some sort of poly/not invested in 'spouse being Other Half' as a concept, but reading all the B's is so viscerally upsetting lol.
Jacob
Help settle a 16 year discussion between me and my husband- if someone tells you something in confidence and asks you to tell no one does that mean:
A- You’re not telling your spouse/partner
B- You are telling your spouse/partner unless you’ve been specifically asked not to
