I think this is my best essay on this topic (maybe my best essay). I'd like you to read it, if you haven't.
David M. Perry
It also means (@lollardfish.bsky.social has ably written about this) that you as a parent are forced to concentrate on and narrate your child's difficulties just to get them what they need, which is damaging to your child and your relationship with them.
Instead of focusing on the challenges facing disabled people, we should emphasize goals.
