My daughter called me out that I'm always saying "is that okay with you, miss?" in a way she considers condescending and it's only now she called my attention to it that I'm realizing how much I say that. So funny to accidentally have a catchphrase
Untitled by Harry Bertoia, 1938
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Sometimes I just think of what it would be like if everyone working in the federal government wanted all Americans to truly thrive and it just makes me feel a little sick inside wanting that world