I’ve really been suppressing how I have to deal with my family for the wedding 🫠 my dad’s side ain’t even here yet and AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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“Out of office” emails on. My mom has been driving all day & almost to my place. It’s officially wedding week.
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Accidentally did two death drops on the hike today. Hope my knees aren’t fucked for the wedding reception
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Wedding vows writing date with the officiant @vanitycomplex.bsky.social <3
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Just picked up the suit
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Coworkers disguised a meeting as a wedding shower for me 😭🥹🥹
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Didn’t think my suit was gonna be ready for another week but just got the notification it’s ready for pick up 🫣🫣 the wedding planning has been real but now the wedding feels REAL
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Wedding rings arrived in the male
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Well :3
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Hotel blocks set!
I need to do a BIG shoutout to @gaygayron.bsky.social for his help with this. He & his man opened an event planning business & made the process so easy. On top of him quickly becoming an incredibly dear friend, if you live in Denver & need an event planner, can’t recommend more <3
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looking at tuxedo rentals AAAAHHHH (yes, I'm wearing white. yes, I'm the bride. yes, it's a hate crime if a straight person asks or implies that)
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Getting the hotel blocks set for those traveling in. In the “force majeure” clause of the contract it starts with “if acts of God or government authorities […] make it illegal or impossible or for such party to perform its obligations”
mama, I will literally fight God if they in the way of My Day
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Wedding invitations mailed out
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I’m collecting all the addresses needed for mailing out invites. Back in my early 20s, there were a few couples I palled around with. All 3 have recently separated, but only one of each has reached out in the past year for life updates.
Looks like only one divorcee per couple is getting an invite.
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Had my first wedding nightmare last night lmao
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We put the deposit down for the venue AAAAAHHHHHHH
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Looks we got my first choice venue
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Uh oh… kinda starting to spiral about this
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Oh no.. we were pretty set on a wedding reception venue but we still had a tour scheduled so we decided to go to see all our options… now we have another venue in the running 🫣🫣 the original still leads for me, but I see the vision of the other
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I AM OVERWHELMED I have so many tabs open
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My mom offered to throw down [redacted] on the reception venue and omg finally having a monetary amount is really helping the search 😍 bitches be visualizing (I’m bitches)
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Omg… our save the date cards arrived in the mail. This is like… real… I’m getting married!!