the number of people answering B like it's obvious is absolutely blowing my mind. if you're not willing to tell no one, it is your responsibility to disclaim that every time the situation comes up! this is not a moral grey area at ALL!
Jed (they/them)
Help settle a 16 year discussion between me and my husband- if someone tells you something in confidence and asks you to tell no one does that mean:
A- You’re not telling your spouse/partner
B- You are telling your spouse/partner unless you’ve been specifically asked not to
