posting on social media is one of the worst parts of being an artist i think as it’s just so depressing and demoralizing having your value as an artist be deemed by numbers
ah well
the idea that women are too pure and delicate and untouchable to experience whatever toxic relationships/angst/whump/etc male characters do and this entire side of the human experience is off-limits for fiction about them is more misogynistic than writing a dark fic about a female character!!