reminder to never tell me anything in confidence because I will either:
1. forget it immediately
2. forget that I wasn't supposed to tell anyone
and it's an absolute coin flip every time, nothing to do with loyalty, how I feel about anyone involved, or the topic. just memory issues.
lgbtqawooo pride
Unless otherwise specified, confidence is confidence and 9 times out of 10, it would be nothing but childish gossip to tell my spouse
However, if you're telling me something that you should only have told your priest, therapist or lawyer that is going to harm somebody, yes, my spouse is hearing it
Rook Lafetra
Help settle a 16 year discussion between me and my husband- if someone tells you something in confidence and asks you to tell no one does that mean:
A- You’re not telling your spouse/partner
B- You are telling your spouse/partner unless you’ve been specifically asked not to
