Like I say this because looking at the name and not the behavior is why Ren got away with this for so many years. He was manipulative, yes, but not everyone was being actively manipulated in little friend groups.
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When an abuser deletes from socmed it is FAR more important to remember their behavior than their name. A name can be changed. People can make new socmed accounts. The behavior does not change. Pay attention to people's actions and listen to your gut.