it's nothing too special i think
you just have to treat h̶e̶r̶ ̶ him like s̶h̶e̶ he should have been treated all along. you can agree with h̶e̶r̶ ̶ him when s̶h̶e̶ he says s̶h̶e̶ he is still a man and why you treat h̶e̶r̶ ̶ him like that but that's the only thing you agree on when it comes to h̶e̶r̶ ̶ his identity