The center is big enough for friend family self love and romantic love to all coexist. Having one with out the other doesnt mean you are incomplete and DESIRING one while having the others doesnt mean what you have isnt appreciated.
For me, i think it’s more important to decenter romantic relationships rather than the men attatched to them. we tend to focus on “finding that special someone” as if that type of partnership is the be all end all to happiness. Your friend and family bonds can be fulfilling too, if you allow for it
