Because, as we all know, the game of βIβm going to pull back from this person and see how long it takes forβ¦β is a foolβs gambit.
I just think people subconsciously stop putting in effort to show that they want a personβs continued attention once they have it. And that really bothers me.
Like yeah I can join the vc but Iβm not part of things. Bluhhhh
Bored and somewhat depressed today. I know things always have an ebb and flow to them with my friends, but this is definitely an ebb.
Friend groupβs involved in separate stuff, in separate circles, and Iβve been kinda alone for the last week. I miss feeling like I have something in common. :<
grapenuts, btw
i donβt mind bland, but that was slightly bitter and off-putting in a viscerally uncomfortable way
the consistency of cat litter didnt help
thatβs it, weβre making today into a good day at all costs
I always notice and think itβs sort of weird how people go through phases of replying to/acknowledging all of your social media posts, then stop and kinda fixate on someone else
That behavior is super common and I donβt get why it happens so often.
wasn't great, but i did something at least.
mood is kinda sour though, a lot of loneliness mixed with overstimulation.
hmmmmβ¦
Is it something like βgetting boredβ of someone?
Or that they want your attention until they have it, then stop trying?
I used to take that as a signal to stop talking to the person as much, because it makes me feel awkward then, but Iβm not sure if thatβs healthy either.
just ate the worst cereal of my entire life and now my night is totally ruined
