Leather daddies and topless dykes have done more for me as a queer person than any assimilationist who just wants to replicate straight family dynamics and all the suburban discomfort towards anyone who steps off the narrow path the cishets want to set us on for their reluctant tolerance of us.
Ro Salarian
See a guy in a leather puppy mask at Pride? He's not harming you, you're just uncomfortable.
See a topless lesbian? She's not harming you, you're just uncomfortable.
At the end of the day, we all make queerphobes uncomfortable, but their discomfort is not harm. Same goes for all of us.
