Actually this warrants a quote.
S A M E
with few exceptions -- For example; private venting or I can actually have a measurable effect on the situation.
The Scrunge
If you've got beef with someone else in my friend circle, please, for the love of god, don't drag me into your petty drama. I got enough shit to worry about as is without having to worry about who hates who now. I'm not your dad. You are an adult. If you can't be civil, use the block feature.