right. @juliaserano.bsky.social has a chapter in her book Sexed Up that describes kinks as either solitary or consensual, which rules out harmful sexual practices. this is a helpful distinction to apply to the expansion of "kink." bigotry is neither solitary nor consensual!
barefootwriter
Seems pretty flagrantly obvious to me that "no kinkshaming" is a rule to apply for shit that's like. Generally stigmatized but ultimately harmless, as a means to combat internalized shame people have about their sexuality.
As opposed to "well my kink is just straight up bigotry, checkmate liberals"
