Perfectionism is a pillar of white supremacy culture, as outlined in Tema Okun's seminar article for DismantlingRacism, White Supremacy Culture. It's a hard thing to grapple with of course, but not allowing yourself to make mistakes can easily turn you into a vehicle for white supremacist ideology
Triage
I'd rather have imperfect Allies over bigots any day of the week, they're too important to our ecosystem for us just to tear them to shreds