Tired: Telling your spouse is betraying a confidence.
Wired: You're not betraying confidence because husband and wife are one body (Genesis 2:24)
Inspired: the spousal 'you are not betraying confidence' privilege extends to telling the whole congregation (Corinthians 12:12).
Help settle a 16 year discussion between me and my husband- if someone tells you something in confidence and asks you to tell no one does that mean:
A- You’re not telling your spouse/partner
B- You are telling your spouse/partner unless you’ve been specifically asked not to