also: don't expect the Dom to put in all the work and cater to your every whim with nothing in it for them
(or, if that's really what you want, hire a professional!)
Aditya Mukerjee 🦦 🏳️🌈
some advice to new subs looking for a Dom:
subs outnumber Doms ~4:1
(you're going to need to put in work)
be respectful of Their time. think about your interests & limits; put your interests in your profile.
proactively reach out (respectfully). clearly communicate what you are looking for!