The only people who ever say this are patronizing elitists with Ivy League degrees who think the plebs are unwashed masses who have no concept of manners and are too stupid to understand anything other than trash talk.
DOUTHAT: Let's be honest -- the tone of the administration is not consistently a Christian tone. There is a tone of aggressive uncharity
JD VANCE: Tonal arguments are ways of, frankly, policing working class ways of communication, and covering them in elite preferences
