Ba) You're telling your spouse/partner because keeping secrets from them is worse than breaking confidences you've committed to
Bb) You're telling your spouse/partner because telling them doesn't count as telling someone, in the same way as telling God or your cat doesn't count
Michael Bench-Capon
Help settle a 16 year discussion between me and my husband- if someone tells you something in confidence and asks you to tell no one does that mean:
A- You’re not telling your spouse/partner
B- You are telling your spouse/partner unless you’ve been specifically asked not to
