There's an incredible story by Ursula Le Guin in which women organize a revolution on a slave planet while the men are getting worked to death in the fields, so and soon as all the slavers are gone the men turn around and enslave all the women
Brooke
So many men assume hierarchy is the only way to organize. So for them feminism means women dominate men, as they now dominate women and children under patriarchy. Feminism centers care and collaboration over hierarchy. Which is genuine equality for everyone.