Agreed.
Also, there used to be a time (and I still see it just not as much) when women would literally be denigrated - by other women! - for wanting romantic relationships and that’s not cool either.
The Hag that Rode Ya
For me, i think it’s more important to decenter romantic relationships rather than the men attatched to them. we tend to focus on “finding that special someone” as if that type of partnership is the be all end all to happiness. Your friend and family bonds can be fulfilling too, if you allow for it
