danmei has the sauce because men being pathetic and vulnerable is eroticized so you get really sopping wet weird losers who will also kill everything in their path for their beloved. and then jerk off to entirely new things you didn't know could be jerked off to.
doctor junko lover (danny)
like this has to be a character outside of the yandere traits. is there a soft underbelly, is there girlfailure, is there a level of cringe inherent to humanity integrated into this character. to put it briefly: are they a fucking loser.