although at some point trying to assess her capabilities and teach her independence becomes its own form of parenting labor, plus (as in this essay) she'll probably just call you a meanie for it anyway
really you don't HAVE to know her Real Inner Truth to know how her actions affect you
You get to be a shark for as long as you please.
What sort of shark are you? 🦈
Here’s a very quick tutorial of how I build a basic capy. Hope it’s helpful!